Once again, Wharton points out that the differences between Lily and Selden could be laid to rest by an “immediate outrush of feeling.” In this instance, however, Selden maintains his reserve and the moment passes despite Lily’s admissions that she has taken great comfort in Selden’s previous admissions of love for her. Rather than looking at her lovingly, however, Selden observes her with a look of “gentle understanding.” While he no longer loves Lily, he still cares deeply for her welfare and well being. Lily, on the other hand, realizes that she once loved Selden but forfeited his love for superficial, monetary reasons.
