Selden’s attitude toward Lily has transformed from smitten suitor to protector. He realizes that Lily’s behavior has been reckless, but he also acknowledges that she is incapable of defending herself from the implications of being exiled by Bertha. Selden’s later behavior is hinted at when Wharton reveals that he has developed a “sense of privilege” through his association with the Brys and Stepneys.
Perhaps nowhere else in the novel is Wharton as disparaging toward the wealthy social class as when she presents Selden’s observations of the contrasts between Lily and the other dinner guests. She depicts the gossip columnist Dabham as a social parasite. She has Selden observe the “ideals of a world where conspicuousness passed for distinction, and the society column had become the roll of fame.” Such is the society that will cast off one of its own regardless of the merits of the charges against her.
