This scene demonstrates the degree of control Emma has gained over pretty, unreasoning Harriet as well as her finesse in making Harriet believe that the decision is her own. For Harriet quite naturally is drawn toward Robert. After Harriet has made up her mind to reject him, Emma is heartless enough to say, "It would have grieved me to lose your acquaintance, which must have been the consequence of your marrying Mr. Martin." In light of her strong wishes, Emma may feel herself justified in saying this, but it is nonetheless a genuine dagger thrust of cruelty, hardly to be excused by anyone except a Harriet Smith. Emma, it appears, will go far to have her way.
